Offering Care From the Bedside: A Full Guide

How You Can Help

Just being here, holding the patient’s hand and talking to them, you are making a big difference.

As you are comfortable this guide offers a few other ways for you to offer care for your loved one.

Daily Supportive Care
These are simple, hands-off activities you can do everyday.

Hands-on Care Guides
These activities require being hands-on with the patient and may take time to get comfortable with.

SAFETY

Talk with your nurse before proceeding with any care activities. You can show them this page.

Daily Supportive Care

Create a soothing environment and provide emotional support while promoting your and your loved one’s healing.

  • Provide comfort and sense of normalcy
  • Maintain patient’s mental health
  • Reduce feeling of isolation
  • Alleviate stress and anxiety
  • Promote mind, body healing
Mindfulness Exercises

Mindfulness can be a powerful tool, even for patients on the breathing machine.
View our ICU specific mindfulness guides

Play Music

You may need to buy headphones – ask the nurse about the best type
Tips & Guides to Playing Music.

Offer Distractions

Read aloud from a favorite book, play a podcast, or watch a lighthearted show.
Read our Tips and Distraction Recommendations

Talk to the Patient

Your voice and presence can be incredibly comforting.
How to keep your loved one oriented

Adjust the Room Environment

Creating a soothing space can make a big difference for you and your loved one.
Simple Changes You Can Make in the Room

Spiritual Care

Don’t underestimate the power of sitting quietly with your loved one.
Read Our Recommendations on Spiritual Care

Hands-on Care Guides

These hands-on cares help address the most common ICU symptoms. It can feel good to help the patient, but as with all cares remember these are optional. The power of your loving presence is all that’s needed.

  • Ease physical discomfort
  • Improve blood flow
  • Aid digestion, skin health, and overall healing
  • Strengthen the bond between you and your loved one
Use an Ice Pack for Pain Relief

Apply an ice pack to painful areas.
Read the Safe Care Guide

Use a Cool Cloth for Comfort

Apply a cool cloth to your loved ones forehead and neck.
Read the Safe Care Guide

Applying a Mouth Swab

Help add moisture and reduce bacteria.
Read the Safe Care Guide

Applying Lip Balm

Prevent dryness, cracking and discomfort that often comes with being in the ICU.
Read the Safe Care Guide

Applying a Cold, Wet Cloth to Lips

Provide gentle relief to your loved one.
Read the Safe Care Guide

Hand or Foot Massage

A loving hands on way to care for your loved one.
Read the Safe Care Guide

Acupressure

Simple guides to a healing touch.
Read Our Full Guide to Accupressure

Don’t Worry About Which to Choose

Based on the symptoms you report, we’ll give you specific guidance on what might help most.

Remember, you can always mix it up.

Some days you might feel up for a hands-on approach, while other times, you might prefer something more low-key.

TIP

No matter which type of care you choose, your presence and support make a big difference.
You’re doing great!